My heart is hurting too bad to write too much today, why?
Today someone asked me if you were drunk when your car crashed...I was speechless and just looked at them completely amazed and utterly shocked that someone would ask such a thing....I could not believe it.
Today someone asked me if you were drunk when your car crashed...I was speechless and just looked at them completely amazed and utterly shocked that someone would ask such a thing....I could not believe it.
"No!" I said. I then proceeded to explain how the CHP told us you had fallen asleep at the wheel and drifted off the road missing the guard rail by a hair - to slam into an oak tree and then roll downward into the bottom of the ravine where your car then plunged into the river, submerging both you and the car under eight feet of water making it impossible to spot from the aerial searches by helicopter and visual searches by rescue works and everyone who helped us look for you, as the search stretched over four long, awful days.
Dear God...If anyone ever reads this, please remember to be kind and respectful if you ask anyone about their loved one that has passed from this life.
It's easy to be blunt but it makes a broken heart crush a little more takingit even longer to mend.
Please remember that a little bit of kindness goes a long way. Try to be kinder than you need to be to those you meet each day, because you never know what the other person is going through in their life at that moment of time.
Forever Loving my Will,
Susan Reynolds
xoxo to heaven Sweet William
It's easy to be blunt but it makes a broken heart crush a little more takingit even longer to mend.
Please remember that a little bit of kindness goes a long way. Try to be kinder than you need to be to those you meet each day, because you never know what the other person is going through in their life at that moment of time.
Forever Loving my Will,
Susan Reynolds
xoxo to heaven Sweet William
finding more details of Wills accident makes me admire yo so much more, your strength and love for life inspires me~ so glad to have met you even if online
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss...I have read your blog post, and am sorry for the insensitivity of others...I will say from the pictures I have seen of Will it is obvious that he knew how to "Seize the Day" You should be proud to have a son who learned so much in such a short time. He will always live in your heart and although perhaps this doesn't help it is my belief God takes those who have proven there worth or achieved their purpose in life. This may seem convenient, but is the only explanation I have for why some good kids leave us too soon. You have a responsibility to live life under your very own Angel. Sounds like you took a great step this holiday season. Will would have been so proud of you.
ReplyDeleteMy best to you and yours.
Nick
Dear Feuza & Nick,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for taking the time not only to read about our son...but to leave a comment too. We appreciate it so very much.
Yes, William showed people how to really LIVE more in his short life than others who live for many decades.
We love and miss him so much.
Thank you again for taking time from your own busy schedules to read and leave a comment.
Always loving our Will,
Matt & Susan Reynolds